I've noticed that lots of people don't know how to act or be around people like me. You know, people who are going through the loss of a loved one. I understand where you are coming from. I never knew how to be either, what to say, or what to do.....so
If you see me.
Talk with me, cry with me
Ask me about my baby, and his story
Tell me how precious he was, how needed he was, how perfect he was
Tell me i'm strong, tell me he is grateful for me
tell me you love me and that your heart is also aching for me
remind me of my heavenly father and his love for me
just come by to visit me
don't stare at me
if you do stare, don't turn away and act like you weren't staring, acknowledge your staring and give me a smile or mouth an 'I love you'
don't try to avoid talking about my baby
it's ok to talk about your life, what's going on with you, in fact it's refreshing
don't avoid me
don't act like nothing happened
I love you all.